Barbara O'Brien offers up a strong post... Idiot Compassion (Updated):
Here in Buddhist Blog World, people who speak bluntly sometimes are accused of not being compassionate or not practicing Right Speech. But sometimes issues need to be addressed, and saying the "safe" or "socially correct" thing so you can be part of the crowd is very far from Right Speech.
As I was reading it, I was reminded of people who insist it's wrong and terribly unbuddhist to "criticize" and "judge" organizations that purport to practice Nichiren Buddhism.
We shouldn't "judge" because, hey, the people we're "judging" chant daimoku just like us, so we should all stick together. We are all disciples of Nichiren. Daimoku is always right even if it is exploited or misrepresented. Nonsense!
Conversely, some Nichiren sects claim that the only way to exercise true compassion is to tell everyone else that they are wrong. They're wrong because they are members of the wrong sect. They're wrong because they have personal opinions about Buddhist practice. They're wrong because they don't believe that their wrongness causes earthquakes. (I wish I was exaggerating.)
"Idiot compassion" can manifest in two ways. One way is niceness. As Barbara described:
...sometimes the urge to be "nice" is about maintaining a polite and pleasant facade over a situation we don't want to confront.
The other way is strident un-niceness -- by being a fanatical, fundamentalist jerk, and presuming to understand Nichiren Buddhism better than everyone else. |